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Valentine’s Day is in just a few days and I know it can be a tough time when you are apart from the one you love.

Remember to lean on family and friends. They love you.

Sometimes we don’t want to impose on those who are close to us.

But ask yourself, “if ______ needed me, would I be there and would I want to help ________?”

You know you would, and that’s how they feel about you too.

Maybe you don’t need to pour your feelings out to someone. But the holiday has you thinking about a past love….

You can still make the holiday a positive one by getting involved with it.

Give a small Valentine’s gift to someone, perhaps your mother or a niece or nephew, or a close friend…you get the picture.

Giving is actually a gift to ourselves. We feel good when we give to others. You can’t help but feel better when you make someone you love happy.

What about your ex?

Valentine’s is a great excuse to contact them as well.

If things are strained, it may be the perfect olive branch to get dialogue going with them again.

You could do something as simple as a text or phone call saying “Happy Valentine’s Day, I hope all is well with you.”

Or if relations have been improving and you think it would be welcome, a thoughtful gift given in person might really make them feel great (and you as well!) .

Maybe things are just not there yet for you and contacting them is out of the question right now?

Don’t be discouraged. Remember you don’t have to get them back in one day (although that would be great wouldn’t it?)

You can take small steps each day and each week, to get you closer to where you want to be.

Remember…

…you are loved by your friends and family…

…your breakup is not a reflection of you.

Let me say that again because it’s an
important point we miss too often…

…your breakup is not a reflection of you!

You are still the great person you were before you met this person and you always will be.

Things WILL get better. They always do.

I’m pulling for you. I truly hope you reunite with the one you love.

More than that, I hope you are happy and this time is a good one for you.

All the best,

Annalyn

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Please take a few moments to view this video from Dr. Wayne Dyer. I promise what you gain from it will far outweigh the few minutes it takes to view it. It’s a touching story that, on the surface, does not appear to relate to getting your ex back. However, there are life lessons that can be learned from this story and applied to all your relationships.

What a beautiful and touching story.

There are many lessons we can take from Teddy’s story. Maybe the most obvious lesson is that it is just too easy for us to have a narrow, and often negative, view of others.

It’s sad to say, but sometimes it’s just too easy to see faults in others and to notice their shortcomings. It’s pretty scary for me to think that my friends and loved ones can just as easily notice all my flaws as well!

As human’s, we’re built to notice these things rather easily. In fact, research has shown that we remember the negative much more easily and readily than we do the positive. Politicians have always known this, which is why their campaigns focus so heavily on mudslinging the opponent.

However, when we take the opposite stance the world literally comes alive for us in the most amazing way. By embracing the unique strength skills, talents, beauty, and wonder in all our close friends, relatives, and even aquantainces, we are often rewarded more than we ever could have imagined.

So what does all this have to do with getting back together with your ex?

Consider this….

After a relationship ends, our natural inclination is to worry that we are going to lose this relationship forever. Losing someone who you love so much is a natural fear.

And that’s a keyword to remember. Fear.

Because of fear, we do some crazy things! We beg and plead for a lover or spouse to stay with us. We say and do things we regret. We just aren’t ourselves because we’re so worried about losing someone.

Think of the teacher in Teddy’s story. Initially, she noticed so many things about Teddy that could be perceived as negative. Perhaps, she didn’t fear Teddy, but it’s safe to say she didn’t approach her relationship with him from a place of love at that time.

But she was a bright and sensitive woman. After hearing one comment by Teddy, she made a decision to change the way she approached teaching forever.

And that single decision changed both their lives forever.

Once she began showing genuine concern and love for Teddy, things changed for the better.

I’d be willing to bet 100 people could watch that video and come away with 100 different lessons.

For me, the main lesson is to approach your relationships from a place of love not fear.

If you read my email mini-course, the 10 Biggest Breakup Mistakes, you see 10 examples of behavior that comes from fear, not love. Begging, pleading, negotiating, making your ex jealous, and so on….. these are all examples of the way we act when we are afraid we are going to lose someone forever.

But we’ll get much farther in our relationships if we come from a place of love, not fear.

So show genuine care and concern for the special people in your life. Be forgiving and be caring towards your ex. Listen and truly try to understand where they are coming from, even if you disagree with them. Do something nice for your ex, with no expectations attached. You get the idea.

I promise you that you will drastically improve your chances of getting back together by acting on love, not fear.

To your success,

Annalyn

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Everyday I get messages from good people just like you who are having a hard time dealing with their breakup.

Many tell me how they cannot live without their ex.

They remember the promises and pledges they made to each other.

Many feel that their identity has somehow changed because they’ve been the dedicated
husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend for so long. They’re trying to figure out what their role is now.

It’s hard to deal with so many of the feelings we experience after a breakup.

In light of all this, I just wanted to give you a simple reminder that I truly hope is helpful.

I apologize in advance for it’s simplicity. You probably already know what I’m
about to say….

But some of you might need a gentle reminder and it is with that in mind that I share it now.

Please remember that, although your relationship has changed, you’re still a wonderful person.

In fact, you still possess the unique traits and character qualities that you did before your relationship began.

Although many things may have happened in your relationship, and your situation has changed, you’re still a good person.

Have you changed at all? Probably. Going through a breakup brings about changes for us all.

You discover things about yourself you may have never known.

Perhaps you are stronger than you ever imagined.

Perhaps you have discovered you know how to do a lot of things that your ex previously did for you.

Mark my words, whether or not you get back together with your ex, you will come out of this stronger.

I wish I could say that all of you reading this will get back together with your ex’s.

Many of you will, but sadly some won’t. We all have our free will, even our ex’s.

But you can weather the storm if you are true to yourself and love yourself.

Pray and also draw strength from your friends and family.

Be active. Do things you’ve always wanted to do.

Sure, we all need to be alone and grieve sometimes. But don’t let it linger.
Life IS good. So are you. So get out there and enjoy it!

I hope this message comes across with the spirit in which it was intended.

No one can tell you how to feel, and I know you may not be feeling too good these days.
But I hope you realize the good in yourself, and in your life and the fact that you will be loved again.

Let that first person to love you be the most important person of all….. you!

All the best,
Annalyn

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